Building on what I share about myself on the main page, I’m also a relationship anarchist (solo-poly adjacent), kinky, and autistic. My particular flavor of autism has meant a range of special interests (read: deep research, observation, and pattern recognition) and formal education connected to feelings, trauma, humans, relationships, and community. I’m fascinated by questions around what it might mean or require to creatively and collaboratively build relational ways of being that support ourselves, our communities, and the work of liberation, and how these are inextricably intertwined. My Master’s research dug deeply into radical love and its liberatory potential. Loving ourselves, each other, and being in relationship inside oppressive social systems in ways that aren’t expected, that challenge norms, can be both challenging and endlessly rewarding as we build the worlds, communities, and dynamics we want to be in. Having support systems in the work of surviving and thriving can be key. So if any of this resonates for you, whatever relational patterns or commitments you have, or you just want to talk, let’s chat!
I offer counseling and relationship support that is affirming of queer, non-monogamous, and kink identities and experiences. This includes but is not limited to:
- Work with individuals, dyads, triads and/or groups
- Relational structures and practices that work individually and collectively
- Communication skills and capacities
- Conflict processing, accountability, and repair skills
Counseling sliding scales:
Please see my general info about pricing in addition to considering these sliding scales.
One-on-one work:
- Hourly rate on a sliding scale from $65-$175
Dyads, Triads, Groups:
With dyads, this work might happen entirely with all present, or it might be beneficial to have one-on-one and group sessions. For all work with more than 2 people I will want to make one-on-one time as well as time to all be together. The balance of sessions will be collaboratively determined.
- One-on-one (to prepare for or process a group session) $40-$100/hr
- Group rate $85-$200/hr
The ranges here are intended to offer a starting point for a conversation and an attempt to offer clarity. If you’d like to work with me, please reach out to discuss what is financially viable for you, and know that some pro-bono spots may be available. Talking about money can bring up a range of responses, and my hope is to provide a balance of transparency and flexibility.